If you love them because of what they say or do then you love conditionally, that is to say, with conditions. To love unconditionally means to give up your conditions. It means you don’t take away your love when they lie, when you feel hurt, when they don’t act the way you think they should. You don’t stop loving because they cease to be funny, or fun, or because they get upset. To love unconditionally means to love simply because you say you love them. It is not predicated on anything they do or say it is not predicated on them at all. If you love them unconditionally it is because you say you love them.